The world of BDSM is amazing and so widely varied. I am ever-changing in my interests, and one way I’ve been able to explore and learn has been through the BDSM lifestyle. I’m definitely active as fuck in that lifestyle, and I love when I get BDSM phone sex calls because I get the benefit of my callers’ experiences and fantasies. BDSM means so many things to so many people, so why allow myself to get bogged down in doing the same thing over and over. No matter how exciting it is at the beginning, if you’re doing the same thing all the time it eventually loses its luster. That’s why BDSM is perfect. I mean, it’s four letters and yet those four letters actually stand for six different categories. Even the name is open for possibilities!!
B = Bondage.
You know what that means, but did you know that it doesn’t just have to be done with rope or cheap novelty store handcuffs? I’ve been there for awesome chain bondage demonstrations and dungeon scenes. Yes, heavy metal chains – apparently they can be purchased from your favorite large chain hardware store in whatever length you want them. There’s cock bondage, or using sexy lingerie. If rope is still your thing, it doesn’t all have to just be basic knotwork. Let’s get really exciting. Let’s talk Shibari!!
D = Discipline OR Dominance
Discipline is part of Dominance, but Dominance is more than just discipline. It’s up to the domme (that would be me) what kind of discipline and how much of it a sub or bottom needs to keep in line. Dominance, however, doesn’t happen without…
S = Submission OR Sadism
Submission. Dominance doesn’t happen without submission. BDSM phone sex almost always seems to include these two, and don’t kid yourself – I’m on the “D” side of the slash. Sadism, however, is simply gaining joy or arousal at the giving of torture and/or pain to someone else. Someone else who enjoys…
M = Masochism
The pain slut. The humiliation whore. Anyone who gets off on being tortured or while receiving pain. I’m a sadist – are you a masochist? We can always explore that if you’re brave enough to call me for BDSM phone sex.
So there you have it – BDSM is actually short for BDDSSM, or bondage/discipline/dominance/submission/sadism/masochism. Pretty cool, huh? No, I will not claim to know it all. Nobody ever does know it all, but I do know a lot about it and I’m always looking to learn more. So if you want to talk about it, play with it, or if you think you’ve got some things to teach me, call 1 888 402 8669 to have some super kinky BDSM phone sex with Riley – I’m ready for you now!!